Quote of the Day

The world tends to trap you in the role you play and it is always extremely hard to maintain a watchful, mocking distance between oneself as one appears to be and oneself as one actually is.
“The world tends to trap you in the role you play and it is always extremely hard to maintain a watchful, mocking distance between oneself as one appears to be and oneself as one actually is.” — James Baldwin, “The Black Boy Looks at the White Boy,” Esquire (May 1961)

Quote of the Day

The roles that we construct are constructed because we feel that they will help us to survive and also, of course, because they fulfill something in our personalities; and one does not, therefore, cease playing a role simply because one has begun to understand it.

“The roles that we construct are constructed because we feel that they will help us to survive and also, of course, because they fulfill something in our personalities; and one does not, therefore, cease playing a role simply because one has begun to understand it.” — James Baldwin, “The Black Boy Looks at the White Boy,” Esquire (May 1961)

Big Brother’s Imperfections

The Blues BrothersMy brother and I were in altered states. He started to voice some truths about me. I wondered what the deal was. I admit my faults, I don’t display them.

I realized that I was not living up to his image of me. I am his big brother and I play the role. Another lesson on the path of letting go of what I am (“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” — 老子).